Why Brexit really is like a divorce

30th June, 2016

Keeping focus in divorce is a critical element of successfully getting through a very difficult process. Keeping focus enables you to concentrate your time, energy and budget on achieving the best outcome possible for you and your family.

This article looks at the challenges that can get in the way and five easy steps you can take to help you.

The referendum vote to leave the EU has been likened to a divorce and in many ways it is.

In the latest episode of our divorce and separation articles, we look at  ten reasons why Brexit is like a divorce.

10 reasons why Brexit really is like many divorces

  1. Only one half wants the divorce
  2. The same grieving process of denial, anger, bargaining, depression and acceptance might be taking place right now
  3. Angela Merkel has transformed into Gloria Gaynor singing “I Will Survive” – the greatest divorce anthem “Go on now go, walk out the day, just turn around now, you’re not welcome anymore…”
  4. Different attitudes to risk and uncertainty on the part of the leaver and leavee
  5.  Suddenly everyone is worrying about divorce contagion – “If they got divorced/left the EU, perhaps we should as well…”
  6. Fault based divorces – the many reasons given for leaving the EU, even though a no fault divorce was available according to article 50
  7. Have a plan for what you are going to do before you tell them you are leaving.
  8. The importance of skilled negotiators who can influence and persuade and get a settlement quickly and effectively
  9. The need to moderate language and behaviour; rash words and actions can lead to increased conflict and having to backtrack after the event
  10. Finally, remember, that after this is all done, we still have to be able to work together whether to co-parent our children or to be able to trade with one another.

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